H owtolivebettereveryday intheworldofsurprises?

By Murray Greig

T o do valuable and meaningful things

People's life can be a great deal or mediocre incompetence which depends on your understanding of the meaning of life.Life is so precious that there is nothing can be compared with.In this life,we should make full use of our time to do valuable and meaningful things.

Love our own life

Each of us should cherish our precious lives.Love our own life even if it is so dull.Love yourself,care for others;do not succumb to a failure,do not be discouraged,and do not give up.Success is to make unremitting efforts;only with perseverance can a person achieve his goal.

Embrace the pain

Life is not always happy and there is no eternal pain.If we want to remain happy,we need to be grateful not only for life but also for pain.Isn’t pain the partner of happiness?

Learn to be grateful

If you are feeling that life just cannot be any worse to you,try to think positively.When we are stressed,depressed,upset,or in a negative state of mind as we perceive that“bad things” keep happening to us,it is important to shift those negative thoughts to something positive.If we don't,we will only attract more“bad things.”

做有意义的事

人的一生可以大有作为，也可以庸碌无能，只在于你对生命意义的认识。生命弥足珍贵，没有任何东西能与之相比。我们应该在所拥有的生命时光里，充分地利用宝贵的时间，去做富有价值和有意义的事情。

热爱生活

我们每个人都应该好好珍惜自己的宝贵生命。哪怕是自己生活如何平淡，也要做一个热爱生活、热爱生命的人。热爱自己，关爱他人;不言败，不气馁，不放弃。成功在于不懈努力，持之以恒才可以达到目标，实现理想。

拥抱痛苦

生命中不是永远的快乐，也没有永远的痛苦。快乐时我们要感谢生命，更要感谢痛苦。痛苦又何尝不是快乐的伙伴呢？

学会感恩

如果你感觉生活对你来说实在是糟糕至极，尝试想些积极的东西。当我们不堪重负、沮丧、失落，抑或因为我们认为倒霉的事总是光临我们而处于消极状态时，将这些消极的思想转变为积极的至关重要。如果我们不这么做，只会招致更多的霉运。